By Carol Silva

Howard Stern - Pat Benetar - Billy Joel - Alec Baldwin - Jerry Seinfeld - Billy Crystal - Rodney Dangerfield - Julius Irving - Amy Fisher - Aristotelis Savalas - aka Telly Savalas - Meg Whitman (CEO of eBay til 2008,) Ben Cohen and Jerry Greenfield or Ben and Jerry. We all learned how to say the Pledge of Allegiance, "duck and cover," and make a snow fort while growing up on Long Island. We all grew up here - me included.
Yesterday I had the privilege of speaking for the LI Museum of American Art, History and Carriages. They were kicking off their great exhibit in Stony Brook called, "Growing Up on Long Island." It's got kid pictures of Billy Joel, toys from our "Golden Age," and even Jerry Seinfeld's 2nd Grade report card!
So they invited three veteran Long Islanders to talk about what it was like for us to grow up here - Katherine Heaviside - who started Epoch 5 Marketing, former Congressman Felix Grucci, CEO of the famous Grucci Fireworks Company, and me!
I love to talk about what like was like growing up on the sod of old potato fields, amidst maple trees that looked like sticks when William Levitt planted them, with apple trees and blueberry and strawberry patched in every backyard.
Here's more of what I was so happy to remember:
· Jolly Rogers - nearly falling off the painted ponies, trying to grab the gold ring. Life has been like that many times since!
· Nunleys - same thing there.
· Ring a leevio, kickball and the annual testing to see if my tongue would REALLY stick to light pole.
On those rare occasions when we played inside there was: Barbie (who turns 50 this year!) GI Joe, erector sets, Monopoly, and when there was a smattering of kids programming in the early morning or at night, watching the Admiral TV built into the wall under the Levitt staircases. Those stairs that led up to the unfinished attics
What a great time to be a kid in the B section of Hicksville. There were about 15 of us kids in a 4 year age span. We all played together. We built 2 story playhouses - along side Chuckie McDonald's house and then paid him a quarter for the privilege of using the rooms that were the size of a dishwasher box. We had kart races - using baby carriage wheels once our Moms were no longer having babies. Chuckie was the oldest and smartest of us. He got us to build a really big go car out of a sheet of plywood. Chuckie rode the single seat. We all gladly pushed him.
My house looked like the rest of the Levitts in the neighborhood at the time. There's still something special about those black speckled linoleum floors, the GE refrigerator that came up the chin of my 5-foot 3 inch mother, with a freezer that only fit ½ gallon ice cream, and the washing machine in the kitchen hall. My home was just like 17,446 other Levitt homes in Levittown, Hicksville and Wantagh.
The oil burner was in kitchen - a great place for my brothers and I to warm our feet after playing in snow. My Dad was in the service for 20 years. There was no money to buy lined snow boots, so my mother "rubber-banded" plastic bags around our feet and put them in our inherited rain boots. That "military economy" contributed to the closeness I have with my brothers today. The 3 of us slept in the same bedroom until I was 6.
On special occasions I would get a shopping spree to Mays in Levittown. We didn't buy much, so I treasured what I got, including that gray sweater with the duck buttons.
My summers were spent swimming, hanging out and competing with the Levittown Swimming Association - at the public pools Levitt put into his community. In fact, my first paid job was as a lifeguard at those pools.
Growing up on Long Island taught me how to work hard! It also taught me:
· That if you didn't do your work thoroughly, it would show - Mrs. Spiegelman taught me in Dutch Lane School the day I didn't study spelling enough to know that "I comes before E" in the word "chief!"
· I learned "it takes a village" - there were no fences in the B-section. We ran freely through yards and neighbors never cared that other kids were pounding down their grass.
· As a lifeguard I learned - if you do what you love - it's never work.
· When I worked the Saturday express line at Pathmark in the Mid Island Mall, I learned that to be fast - but with a smile - pays off. People smile back.
· When I was in 4th grade I also learned some people wouldn't like me because I'm half Mexican. My friend's mother told me so. That shocked me. But it also taught me to be proud of who I was - to speak up for myself - and that labels didn't matter.
· I also earned that an "all nighter" in high school wasn't a party with my friends - it was what you got if you waited til last minute to do report.
I've been offered jobs in other cities - but frankly, I never could see myself living someplace else.
Right now we're faced with the worst economic crisis since the Great Depression. Tuesday President Obama said - America will rebuild, recover, and emerge stronger than before, saying,
"Those qualities that have made America the greatest force of progress and prosperity in human history we still possess in ample measure. What is required now is for this country to pull together, confront boldly the challenges we face, and take responsibility for our future once more."
Those are the very things I learned on LI. That simple pleasures are what have endured. My memories of growing up on LI are not the size of my house or what clothes were in my closet. I learned that one of the best summer smells is that smell of Good Humor truck napkins and honeysuckles in the backyard.
Some of sweetest memories of a childhood - well worth living on Long Island.